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Oscar Wilde
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Eccentric Irish Writer
whose homosexual
relationship with
Alfred Douglas
landed him in prison.
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   Oscar Wilde was born in Dublin, Ireland. His father was a famous eye doctor, and was knighted for his excellent service to Queen Victoria. His mother was a writer of patriotic Irish verse under the pseudonym, Speranza.  He was educated at Trinity College and later at Oxford where he discovered the dangerous and delightful distinction of being different from others. While studying at Oxford, Wilde was influenced by Walter Pater and his doctrine of art for art's sake. After moving to London in 1879, Wilde greatly supported this belief and became the leader and model of the aesthetic movement, which was based on this doctrine. 
   Wilde was a poet and author his whole life. He wrote a brilliant novel, several plays, numerous poems, and even fairy tales. His novel is called "The Picture of Dorian Gray."  It is about a young man who makes a deal with the Devil that gave him the ability to remain young while his portrait aged.  The story took on heavy moral issues and, in it's day, was absolutely revolutionary. 
   In 1884, he married Constance Lloyd. They had two sons: Cyril and Vyvyan. In 1891, he met Alfred Douglas, the poet son of the Marquess of Queensberry, and they became attracted to each other. The Marquess found out about their association and charged Wilde with homosexual offences. After two trials, Wilde was found guilty and sentenced to two years of hard labor in prison. After he got out of prison, Wilde left England for France and used the assumed name Sebastian, after the Christian martyr. 
   Oscar Wilde died poor in 1900.
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The British King Who
Abdicated His Throne
For the Love of a Commoner
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  In the entire history of Great Britain there has been only one voluntary royal abdication and it came about in 1936 solely because of one woman, Mrs. Simpson. During the previous year,  she was as intimate with Edward as she was later on, but he was then only Prince of Wales and there was no reason to think she was not going to remain the wife of Mr. Simpson, 
   The newspapers of the day reported that, "Two years ago Mrs. Simpson was hardly known as Edward's friend outside the most limited Mayfair set. Three years ago their friendship was furtive: she would just happen to be in a London nightclub with her own party, the Prince of Wales would also just happen to be there with his, and an servant would go over to her table and ask if she would care to dance with H.R.H." 
   Edward of Wales had had many another friend on the same terms, and Mrs. Simpson was an ordinary divorcee of the international set.  However, she was not rich and seldom or never mentioned in society columns. In 1936 she became the most talked about, written about, headlined, and interest-compelling person in the world. In these respects, no woman in history has ever equaled Mrs. Simpson, for no press or radio existed to spread the world news she made. 
   In England the news that the King, as king, wanted to marry Mrs. Simpson was the final culmination of a tide of events sweeping the United Kingdom out of its cozy past and into a more or less hectic future. The Prime Minister provoked the entire crisis, which otherwise might never have arisen as such, by making the first official statement in the House of Commons that King Edward was actually resolved to marry Mrs. Simpson. This fact had been ascertained as a "scoop" personally by William Randolph Hearst, but had it not been made official, Edward VIII might simply have done nothing until after he was crowned on May 12, and then (Mrs. Simpson having meanwhile obtained her absolute divorce on April 27) His Majesty had only to marry her and she would have been Queen. 
   This was a case where a unique kind of love overcame the strength and power of the British Empire.
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The Tale
of 
Two Poets
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   A product of Victorian England, English poet Elizabeth Barrett Browning lived for years as an invalid who was dominated by her father.  However, "Sonnets from the Portuguese," her most well known work, was written after she escaped her father's control.  It is a set of love poems written for the poet Robert Browning-- who first admired her poetry, then became her friend, and finally her husband. After their marriage, they moved to Italy, where her health markedly improved and where their son was born. 
   Elizabeth Barrett was thirty-nine and an invalid when Robert Browning stormed his way into her life. She was at that time a well-known author.  He was a promising but hardly known poet.  They got married and moved to Italy in 1846, where Elizabeth made a miraculous recovery of her health and, at the age of forty-three,  gave birth to their child. Only her death in 1861 was to separate them. Elizabeth Browning's wonderful 'Sonnets from the Portuguess' were written to her husband  without thought of publication. Robert Browning urged to publish them. 
   Is it so unusual that two of the greatest poets of their time should have such a strong attraction to each other?  What makes their relationship so interesting is their total commitment to each other despite the realities of their lives.
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