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|A Slow Handyman...
of the most enjoyable experiences I have had as my man's lover has to do
with those times when he decides to undress me. He doesn't grab at
whatever I am wearing and disrobe me as fast as he can. What he does (and
he does it so well) is much the opposite. After many moments of tender
kissing and touching, he slowly unbuttons or raises my top. Then,
he takes his time removing one piece of clothing at a time; from the top
to the bottom. Of course there are plenty of kisses and caresses
between each piece of discarded clothing. That's what makes it so
erotic and wonderful. Like that old song says, "I want a slow hand
with a soft touch." He has two of them.
~ Michele - Texas, USA
|A Musical Massage
for Her Guy...
I made a CD of all our favorite loves songs and purchased
several little candles. When he got in to the shower, I set up the
CD so that it would be ready to play, lit the candles, and threw the couch
cushions on to the floor. When he came in to the room, I started
the music and gave him a full body massage using hot edible oil that heats
up when you breathe on it. As you can well imagine, it turned out
to be a very nice evening for both of us.
~ Lisa - Maine, USA
My Alice passed away a little less
than a year ago. One of the wonderful memories I have of her has
to do with something I call "That Look." You see, whenever the urge
hit me to share some intimate moments with her, I would give her that look.
She never disappointed me. The next thing I knew, I was following
a trail of clothes laying on the floor to our bedroom. You have no
idea how, to this day, my eyes mist up when I recall the vision of that
gorgeous woman waiting for me on our bed. At age seventy-one, I have
no thoughts of ever being in a serious relationship again. Anyhow,
what woman could ever replace the beautiful memories I have of the woman
I made love to for over fifty years? And all I ever had to do was
simply give her that look. ~ Fred - Ohio, USA
Every night for over twelve years,
we have ended our day the exact same way and, hopefully, will change it.
From the very first night we spent together, we have fallen asleep with
her head tucked into my chest while I hold her with my right arm.
Although, it's true that we don't sleep that way all night long, the point
is that it is how we end each day and that's the important thing. By the
way, it doesn't take long each morning when we are starting to wake up
to get back into that same position. Heck, sometimes we just stay there
and get into some other interesting positions before we finally get out
~ Doug - Colorado, USA
|A Weekend Nearby...
Since we both work full-time jobs,
it is hard for us to go very far away when we decide to go somewhere for
the weekend together. So, a couple of times a year, we reserve a
room at a nearby motel that we like very much. Once the babysitter
is in place, we hop into the car like a couple of kids as we look forward
to a few days and nights alone together. We also bring a portable
cd player, a few bottles of our favorite wine, and a wine glass set with
a matching crystal bottle. She also manages to bring a few lacy items,
too. Other than venturing out for a couple of nice dinners, we spend
most of the time in our room. Oh, yeah, if you should ever do this,
be sure to put that "Do Not Disturb" sign outside on the door.
~ Ted - Montana, USA
All I can say is that it is well
worth the long drive. We live in a good sized midwestern city.
A few years ago, we were wandering through a state park and got lost. We
found ourselves in the middle of nowhere. There was not a house anywhere
around and the dirt road was absolutely devoid of any traffic. We
were surrounded by woods and knew that we could simply retrace the roads
we took to get back out. Instead of doing that right away, we pulled
into a little clearing on the side of the road. I won't describe
what we did in the car while we were there. Of course, if you use
your imagination, you would be pretty close. Well, we had a wonderful
time and have managed to find that same spot several times since.
~ Michael - Pennsylvania, USA
|A Love Hunt...
I sent my lover on a scavenger hunt,
everytime she would get to a location I sent her, (examples: florist, jewelry,
lingerie shop and a health spa) she would get a new clue at every location
she visited and when she reached her final location, I sent a limousine
to pick her up and bring her to the Hotel suite I rented for the night
for a bubble bath, candle light dinner and an evening of unforgettable
lovemaking! ~ Jeff - Ohio, USA
It was never this good when we first
met. What I mean is that we both were a lot more, well, quicker then
when it came to lovemaking. Since then, we have both noticed how
much more sensual it can be when we take it a lot slower. The first
time it happened, he did something totally different from any other time.
He simply spent a long time kissing my lips, my face, my ears, and my neck
with all kinds of little baby kisses. It was absolutely wonderful.
He obviously noted my quick responsiveness because I've had the pleasure
many times since then. I don't think I'll ever get tired of all of
those soft, sensuous, and tender baby kisses. ~ Mandy - California,
|Full of Hot Air...
One night, before my wife came home from work, I filled
our bedroom with helium-filled balloons--each one having a long ribbon
attached to it. Before she came home, some of the balloons had fallen.
This only added to the atmosphere. I also placed a dozen roses and a chilled
bottle of our favorite wine beside the bed. Add a little romantic music
and we had an evening filled with making our own music. ~
Allan - Mississippi, USA
He purchased one of those blank
greeting cards that has a picture of an embracing couple on the front.
We were eating out at a nice restaurant when he handed it to me along with
a pen. I opened it up and here is what it said on the inside, "After
reading what I would like to do with you when we get home tonight, take
the pen I just gave you and add whatever you want to it...Tonight, I want
to take you into our bedroom and undress you while kissing your neck."
What fun! I wrote the next line and then passed it back to him.
We handed it back and forth to each other several times during the meal.
Each time it got more and more erotic. Needless to say, we skipped
dessert at the restaurant. We had that when we got home.
~ Erika - New York, USA
It usually starts in a public place.
Maybe it's while we are shopping together at the mall or out for an evening
of dancing. He whispers something very erotic into my ear.
Of course, you can well imagine what he might be saying to me. I
smile, nod, and we go on. Then, I find a moment not too much later
to whisper a response and include a risque' comment of my own. A
little later on, he responds and so on and so on. All I can tell
you is that by the time we get home together, we barely make it through
the door before we end up, well you know, making love.
~ Fay Elise - Delaware, USA
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