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Risque' Couples...
Sexual suggestiveness (or bordering on the edge of normal
human intimate behaviour) is considered to be good erotic fun for those
who see themselves as being risque'. Couples who have a more adventuresome
spirit in this regard seem to enjoy fliriting
with the more sensuous forms of
adult playfulness.
They are not necessarily swingers,
paticipants in threesomes, or even
unfaithful
to their mates. In fact, this form of sexuality has more to do with
two people who simply enjoy playing with each other in a more sensuous
way.
Of course, this kind of intimacy does not just happen
on it's own. Couples have to work at it.
First of all, be sure that you don't pull
any surprises on each other when it comes to the types of more risque'
lovemaking detailed below. Be absolutely sure that your mate is open
to the kind of playfulness you are suggesting and do not rush into it full
blast when first attempting to incorporate it into your lovemaking.
Take it easy at first and see and see whether or not you both like it.
Secondly, realize that human nature tends
to allow itself to go from one level of experience to the next quite easily.
These types of erotic playfulness can border on some other kinds of sexuality
that might prove to be ultimately destructive to your relationship.
Don't fly too close to the fire. You and your lover might get seriously
burned if you do.
Finally, don't try any of these ideas unless
you are positive that your relationship is strong enough to handle them.
These are not necessarily sexual ideas that will help a soured relationship
regain it's former vitality.
With those thoughts in mind, here are some suggestions
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Risque' Moments...
Have you ever made love in the back of a stretch limousine?
How about enjoying some intimacy in a jacuzzi (even if the neighbors happen
to notice)? When was the last time that you filled your bedroom with
lit candles and gave him/her a hot oil massage? Have you ever visited
a risque' lingerie shop with each
other? How about touching each other intimately in public (of course,
in a way that no one else is able to see)?
Being risque' is not everyone's cup of tea. However,
there are those who are very playful and their relationship not only allows
for such behaviour but screams for it as well. Not all personality
types are able to deal with this kind of super-charged eroticism, but there
are those who do consider it to be very natural.
Whatever the mind can imagine and two people can agree
together to enjoy, those who test the borders of their sexuality with mutual
consent
are sure to have an unusually good time.
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Risque' Role
Playing...
Dressing seductively can be a real turn on. Not
only are women able to do this with the many styles of sexy clothing available
to them but men can do much the same. We live in a time when satin
bikini briefs are considered manly and a lacy black top that reveals her
cleavage is acceptable--gosh, even appreciated. Of course, risque'
couples have a way of taking this further with everything from cross-dressing
to wearing elaborate costumes. Then again, lucky is the guy who comes
home from a hard day's work, walks in the door, and finds his woman dressed
in leather and looking very dominant for a change.
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Risque' Talk...
Again, it's a matter of preference but there are those who enjoy
risque' correspondence and conversation. Whether it's erotic e-greeting
cards or a provacative e-mail message before arriving home from work in
the evening, some like it hot. Then there are those who equally enjoy
risque' chat while in the midst of either foreplay or intimacy. If
this is something that you and your lover would enjoy, it is good to keep
in mind that there are limits with everyone. Be sure not to go over
the line in this regard or you might find that you'll not be able to finish
something that you have started. Talking dirty must be done cleanly,
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Risque' Evening
Wear...
Whether it's a revealing bra and panty set or a sexy teddy,
sensual lingerie has a way of adding
to the alluring atmosphere of a romantic
evening. Men love to buy sexy outfits for their ladies.
Likewise, a woman who dresses up for her man is sure to please.
There is something about lacy lingeries that is a major
turn-on with many people. In fact, the demand for sexy intimate wear
has spawned a huge industry for those who design and produce everything
from silky nightgowns to corsettes; from see-through negliges to split-croche
panties; from fishnet sockings to lacy hose. It's all in whatever
catches her interest and his eyes.
What man doesn't crave being able to come home from a
hard day's work to find a candlelit dinner waiting for him and his lady
all decked out in risque' lingerie?
For that matter, what woman doesn't enjoy seeing
her guy in a pair of the many styles and kinds of sexy underwear for men?
It can work both ways.
Afterall, isn't that the idea?
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Risque' Toys...
We
are not able to go into a detailed description here of the various erotic
toys that are available for those who enjoy them. However, the point
to be made is that sexual aides are yet another
large industry that seems to be in high demand.
There was once a time when the only
place these items could be purchased would be in a seemey adult bookstore
in the worst part of the city. Things have changed. You can
now locate Internet catalogs through the major
search engines and purchase these items online. Also, there are more
shops that cater to couples by stocking a combination of the more risque'
styles of lingerie along with a good sized section of sex
toys. Most of these establishments are as frequented by women
as well as men.
Again, be sure that whatever you
choose is something that your mate will enjoy. Some items may look
like they would be fun but could prove to be too over the line for your
mate.
A toy is something that you play
with. It's meant to be fun and should add to your pleasure together.
Anything that is hurtful or harmful should be avoided.
At any rate, using such items
in your lovemaking will add new meaning to the phrase, "Hey, wanna play?"
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The mission of this not-for-profit website is to promote clear insights
and toleration regarding the many variations of primary relationships that
exist in our world. We ask for neither acceptance or approval but
hope that each visitor who reviews the pages of this site will leave them
with a better understanding of the numerous cultural, historical, preferential,
religious, sexual, and sociological approaches to coupling that have always
existed and will continue to exist as long as there are at least two human
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maintaining this site results in others coming to the realization that
the basic human need to love and be loved takes on many forms which are
accepted by those who practice them, whether right or wrong as determined
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