those times when a gift is not expected at all that it is even more special.
I am always on the look out for some item she would like or, perhaps, something
that would simply express my love for her. Large or small, a surprise
is always sure to please.
My guy and
I love to snuggle together while watching tv or just talking with each
other. I love the warm feeling of being close to him; especially
when his arm is around my shoulder and our faces are close enough to be
found it in a used furniture shop, took it home, cleaned it up, and had
it reupholstered. It's a chair for two people. It now sits
in our bedroom and we both love cuddling up together in it.
usually eat out at least once a week. It started when we were dating.
While we are waiting for our order to arrive, we hold hands across the
table as we talk. We've done this for nine years now and I never
get tired of it.
...Sheri, Texas, USA
has always enjoyed buying flowers for me and I love receiving them.
So, one evening, I left a single rose in a vase on his bedroom dresser
with a sweet little love note. He appreciated it so much that I have
continued to get him flowers from time to time. Of course, he always
knows what the flowers are really saying. ...Julie,
|Sharing a Glass...
enjoying a nice evening at home with each other, we only use one glass
while sharing a bottle of wine. We take turns sipping from it.
Is this not a romantic idea?
we just sit on the sofa and enjoy tracing each other's eybrows, eyes, noses,
lips, etc., with our fingertips. That's all. It's tender, sweet,
and always ends up with me wanting to be alone with him for just as long
as he wants to.
...Linda, Washington State, USA
of the nicest moments of our time together, is when we snuggle up together
at the end of day. I love to hold her in my arms and snuggle up close
to her as we drift off to sleep at the end of another busy day. Nothing
is quite as reassuring as that last kiss goodnight. For some reason,
I dream of her a lot. Maybe it's because we not only know how
to love together, but we also know how truly sleep together.
...Bill, Colorado, USA
|May I Have This
I enjoy throwing on a cd of slow dance music. The reason for this
is that he has never refused me when I have done so. We hold each
other, dance and dance until the music is done, and enjoy some wonderful
tender moments together. He is more than my dance partner.
He is my love.
are wonderful! I am always on the look out for those that add a nice
touch to a romantic evening in. Recently, he brought home three little
holders in the shape of a heart that he bought
for a dollar each. We change candles and holders often and enjoy
the nice calm feeling theyseem to evoke.
|Send an Internet
both have conflicting work schedules. One of the things we do to
stay in touch with each other is to send e-cardsto
each other. Those that have love or romance categories have some
really cute graphics. It's just another way for us to say "I love
you" to each other even though our time together is limited.
each week, we cook a meal together. Even though I am not very good
at it, she tells me how to slice this and how to marinate that. However,
I am pretty goood at removing wine bottle corks, setting the table, dimming
the dining room lights, and making sure that the stereo is plaing some
nice music in the background.
a man, I have to admit that going shopping is not one of my favorite things
to do. Whenever I need to pick up some clothes, I seem to know exactly
what I want and waste as little time as possible shopping for it.
However, my wife seems to enjoy looking in every possible place to find
what she wants and also be able to obtain it at the lowest price possible.
She will spend much more time looking for an item than I will. That
being said, I would hate all those times when she wants me to go to the
mall with her to do some shopping. So, what makes it well worth going
is the great time we have. We hold hands. She lets me walk
with my arm around her waist. Also, we take time to tease and kid
each other. I also enjoy the freedom she gives me to let her know
which items I think look good on her after she tries them on in the various
department store dressing rooms. She also takes time to go the the
stores that I enjoy and never complains about how long I like to spend
browsing around in them. We also enjoy getting lunch or dinner together
at one of the many choices in the food courts or restaurants.
I guess what I am trying to say is that we have a lot of fun shopping together.
Because she is openly affectinate with me in public, I look forward to
the times when she says, "Hey, Baby, let's go to the mall!
New Jersey, USA
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