Sexual fantasies are an intriguing subject...and not only men have them.  The truth is, women have them too, but they are limited to three general types. Women can be just as sexual as a man if he learns what fantasy buttons to push.
   In order to rouse a woman's fantasies, it takes a little work.  First of all, when you set out to stimulate your partner, you need to narrow your focus
down to the three specific types of fantasies:  1. Women with women, 2.  Women in Control, and 3. Sexually insatiable.
   Too often, when using fantasies, men include the things that turn themselves on rather than what arouses a woman.  Unfortunately, this is the quickest way to turn a woman off.  Women have specific requirements in their fantasies, primarily, a slow building pace before and after the sex act.  As a matter
of fact, the non-sexual touching is equally arousing to a woman.   When using fantasies with your partner, pay close attention to the core elements in each of the types listed below and include those details during fantasy talk.
   Fantasy One: Women with Women.  This fantasy is alluring to women because its primary activities consists of two aspects of sex that women crave: oral satisfaction and tenderness.  The key to this fantasy is slow seduction.  It begins with caressing and holding, builds to passionate, mutual orgasms, and finishes the way it began-tenderly.
   Fantasy Two: Women in Control.  The central theme in this fantasy is a woman who has the power to maker her partner cum.  This is the woman who plays the controlling seductress whether it's through the role of dominatrix, exhibitionist, or any number of controlling women roles that turn a man  on.  Her arousal comes from watching a man lose his control to her.
   Fantasy Three: Sexually Insatiable.  Unlike the other two types of fantasies, this one is more "manly" because the focus is on the sex act.  Common themes in these fantasies are: engaging in forbidden love, oral sex, multiple orgasms, orgies, public sex, and anything involving sexually adventurous actions.
   The easiest way to begin is to start out slowly.  You might, for instance, bring up the topic of sexual fantasies. All you need to say is, "Which of the following three would turn you on more?  At that time, mention the fantasies above.  The mere act of talking about it will arouse her.
   So, if you want to turn your partner on through sexual fantasies, all you have to do is start talking about the subject.   It may be a slow process, but it's guaranteed to create an insatiable woman!
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You Have A Message by Nancy Fagan, M.S.
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   Leaving a phone message for your partner can be a creative way to express your feelings. All you have to do is call your partner when you know he isn't home. If you're at a loss for what to say, use one of the short messages I suggest below. 
   Go ahead and try one out on your partner.  You may be surprised by the response you get!
 

• "I didn't think about you once today. Twice, three, six times maybe, but not once."
• "Hi, I just called the hotline, and they said you are on duty tonight. My romantic side needs first aid; what is your prescription? Please return this call ASAP."
• "I always wondered where the missing part of my heart was until I found you."
• "I never quite understood how time could stand still until I met you."
• "You're your, and I'm me, but I like "we" better. I can hardly wait to see you."
• "I was walking in the garden a few minutes ago and smelled an incredible flower and thought about you. It's beautiful to see our love blossom."
• "Hi! This is the person who's crazy about you. Please be ready for a warm hug when I see you tonight."
• "No one has ever touched my heart the way you have. Please keep touching it."

   In most couples today, both people have careers. Dual-career couples often experience an increase in relationship stress and a decrease in the amount of time they have for each other. As long as the relationship is well-organized, and nothing unexpected comes up, work and relationships run smoothly. However, life usually doesn't work that way.
   Couples must keep their lives in balance. If they don't, their relationships will suffer. You won't fall out of love just because you're a workaholic. But continually putting your other responsibilities ahead of your relationship means that you and your partner will pay in terms of emotional neglect for each other's needs. Get a sitter if you need some time alone. Take a sick day to put your relationship back in good health. Do what's necessary to balance the needs of your life with the needs of your relationship.