Sad to say, more women have been betrayed, decieved, beguiled,
and told one lie after another by men who only have one thing on their
minds. As a result, guys who are genuine have to put up with the
scars inflicted on decent females due to their learned distrust of anything
that smacks of maleness.
Trustworthiness is probably the most valued trait that any man can demonstrate
from a woman's perspective.
As a middle-aged divorced
man, I've listened to numerous accounts of women who shared nightmarish
accounts of men who told them one lie after another.
Not only that, but I've seen these guys in action.
They'll say anything to get a woman into bed.
How about the guy who enters into a relationship
with a woman who is convinced that she has found someone who truly loves
her--only to find out that the b___ard is
Witness the woman who is told that she is the only woman
in his life, only to find out that she is one of many.
Then there is the guy who claims that he is a bonified
state policeman. However, she finds out several months into the relationship
that he is really a security guard in a small office building. Actually,
she would not have minded so much that he wasn't a policeman as long as
he was telling the truth. He lied and that is the real issue.
I could give one example after another. The
fact is that too many men use and abuse good women. One lie turns
into another lie followed by an even bigger one. By the time these
gals figure out the truth, they are so hurt and betrayed that it becomes
very difficult to believe anything that a male has to say.
Along comes a good guy.
He is absolutely trustworthy.
Furthermore, he is an open book and the word "transparent"
describes him to a tee.
Nevertheless, thanks to those other a__holes, he
has to wait out months (perhaps even years) of establishing trust with
the woman he desires a relationship. Why? Because some jerk
from hell laid her so low with his lies that she has lost her trust in
anything remotely resembling a male.
One would expect such a diatribe from a woman.
However, this is a male who is venting here.
I'll tell you why!
I'm sick and tired of you guys who lie through your
teeth just to get a female to go to bed with you.
You've got no respect for the fact that a woman
is a human being who deserves respect and honor.
Now, don't give me that bull-crap about those characteristics
being old-fashioned concepts. The truth is that those of you who
have to lie to get a woman to look your way are nothing more than a bunch
of low lifes who barely rate being included in the registry of the human
Shame on you!
| The fact is that you make it so difficult on men
who are genuine and true. As a result, after experienceing a few
like you, most women are so demolished that they can scarce recognize a
truly good guy when he appears.
It takes forever for them to start believing again.
In fact, some women become so distrustful that they
are emotionally scarred for life.
After giving up their heart, their soul,
and their bodies to men who seemed
to be the real thing, finding out that they have been told nothing but
lies is devistating.
It happens a lot.
It happens too much.
It makes victims out of women who try to trust a
man at face-value and it equally victimizes the men who are indeed real.
What in the world is wrong with you?
Haven't you got enough sense to know that having
to lie and decieve to gain a woman's attentions only makes you out to be
nothing less than an absolute jerk?
Man to man, you're an idiot of the worse kind.
You're self-centered, egotistical, arrogant, and
If betrayal were a crime, you should get life without
Sad to say, there are few males who would not be
sent to such a prison if justice were perfect in this world.
However, there is still some hope.
Men are capable of understanding such things.
Those who do understand are head-and-shoulders above the rest. Believe
it or not, most woman are more than able to eventually figure out who is
real and who is not. Liars will be found out. Deceivers will
be discovered. Frauds will be exposed. It will eventually all
come to light.
That being the case, any man who thinks that he
is going to successfully beguile a woman has another thing coming.
It can't be done.
Women network. They are suspicious by nature.
They are born investigators. Their contacts are many and they'll
figure it out even if it seems to be an impossibility.
Don't doubt it for a minute.
When the gig is up, you'll be seriously confronted.
Furthermore, when it happens, you'll be on your way to
Hell in a handbasket.
Her friends will cheer her on.
Her family will support her.
Every truly good man will sympathize with her.
You'll go down in the minds of many as the worst
case scenario of how low a man can become when he simply cannot be honest
and fortheright with a woman.
So, what am I telling you?
You know who you are.
Don't you think that it's time to stop being a lying
Any woman of quality expects a man to be trustworthy.
It will be your best gift to her. In fact, being a man who can be
trusted will assure her of your love and commitment.
It's the very thing that will truly make you a man in
her eyes in every sense of the word.
Trust me on this.
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