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Seeking
Our Prey...
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This page explores the age-old truth
that men are generally hunters as opposed to the two extremes of being
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However, man's need to seek a mate
has been seriously frustrated by some modern day women who have grown up
overly liberated with no clue as to how to respond to a man who presents
himself in an honest and genuine fashion. Although, it is true that
the same women are accustomed to being pressured by men who are predators,
the irony is that they are a turn-off to those good men whom they really
want. As a result, they neither attract good men nor can they keep
one.
Hopefully, this article will provide
some insights that will help those with extreme tendencies to moderate
their thinking and become more compatible with each other.
So, let's plunge in and see what
we can come up with...
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Happy Hunters...
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Ladies, do you have any idea how different it is for a
man when in pursuit of a female?
I have a theory that all men have a need to hunt
and women are the happiest when hunted.
Since modern technology has relieved men of the
kind of hunting that involves shooting wild game for supper or tracking
down enemies who encraoch upon our territory, we have found other ways
to work out this natural drive.
As a result, some men are constantly on the prowl for
the next gadget that will catch their fancy. Some satisfy themselves
with accumulating as much riches and belongings as possible. Others
get off on the applause of the crowd. Still others find satisfaction
in searching for treasure or, as my father was so inclined, that vein of
ore in the mountains of Montana. On the lighter side, there are men
who are delighted when a long sought for stamp appears to fill an empty
space in a collection or a model car that has been long looked for is located
in a hobby shop. On the darker side, there are men who fulfill their
need to hunt by going after a position and destroying everyone and anyone
who stands in their way. Would we ever have become familiar with
Moby Dick had it not been for Captain Ahab's need to hunt the mighty whale
down and kill it? Men are hunters.
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Stalking Illusive
Prey...
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Of course, the one type of hunting that all males have
in common is in regard to the female of the species. Like Tyranosourus
Rex, we will not look twice at any prey that is to willing to sacrifice
itself up to us. The saliva only begins to flow when the victim
of our desire is perceived to be all that we prefer when it comes to beauty,
personality, intelligence, and sexuality (not necessarily in that order)
and is somewhat illusive as well. Once we
have her in our sites, it only takes careful aim and one pull of the
trigger to graze her just enough to get her full attention. From
then on, we seek only to capture her alive and take her home where she
can be caged in our love forever. Men are hunters.
So, when viewed from a male's perspective, our need to
hunt is a necessary part of our nature. When you think about it;
now wonder we men are thought of as "wolves" and we refer to our women
as dear. Whoever the guy was who changed the spelling from "deer"
to "dear," should be commended for his cleverness in concealing the real
motivation behind our favorite prey. Like wolves stalking a deer
in the thicket, we relish the hunt. |
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Planning the
Hunt...
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Furthermore, this explains why men must have a plan when
seriously seeking a mate. Unlike females whose plan is more limited
to making themselves look attractive as the prey, we men have to work out
every detail when going about the business of woman hunting.
The "plan" involves more than dressing nice and smelling
good. It also includes the kind of car we drive, the size of our
bank account, identifying those places where the kinds of females we desire
are to be found, and taking part in activities we would otherwise have
no interest in if not for the presence of women (dancing, skiing, clubbing,
etc.).
Whereas women enjoy getting with their own kind to share
their experiences with men, we guys share ideas with other males that have
more to do with using the right bait and setting the traps so that they
will be more effective. We also throw in a lot of bravado and bragidocia
that none of us can resist, nor do we believe it when hearing it from another
guy. We say things to each other like "Can't live with 'em and can't
live without 'em." Of course, though, the emphasis is on the "can't
live without 'em" part.
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The Hunter is
Really the Hunted....
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We men are aware that there is a certain truthfulness
to the statement that "a man chases a woman until she catches
him." However, we delight in the chase regardless of what a woman
may or may not do to assist us in the hunt. No matter what a woman
does or says, it is we who are the mighty hunters and a wise woman would
not disuade us from this as we value most the prey that is not so easy
to catch.
Well, it is just a theory. I suppose that there
are also men who do not think in these terms at all. Still, I would
be hard pressed to be convinced by anyone that this is a good general deptiction
of most male's approach to seeking mates.
We are hunters and the only thing we want to do is
aim for her heart and hope that we hit the mark. |
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The mission of this not-for-profit website is to promote clear insights
and toleration regarding the many variations of primary relationships that
exist in our world. We ask for neither acceptance or approval but
hope that each visitor who reviews the pages of this site will leave them
with a better understanding of the numerous cultural, historical, preferential,
religious, sexual, and sociological approaches to coupling that have always
existed and will continue to exist as long as there are at least two human
beings living on this planet. If the effort put into creating and
maintaining this site results in others coming to the realization that
the basic human need to love and be loved takes on many forms which are
accepted by those who practice them, whether right or wrong as determined
by the personal belief system of others, then it will have served it's
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